Raising Kids with a Growth Mindset
Honestly, it's tempting to tell my daughter how smart she is and how special she is to me. After all, being a father is one of the things that I enjoy most about life. She and I are also extremely close. However, I don't want to look back when she's an adult and wish I had prepared her better for the challenges and successes of life. Our life is not without its challenges, but we have been truly blessed. My wife and I have great jobs and we have very little debt (that should be paid off within three months of publishing this post). As a result, there are few material things or experiences we can't provide for our daughter. Having "made it," our daughter won't have to struggle before adulthood, but that doesn't mean she doesn't need to struggle before adulthood. While it's easy to frame this challenge of parenting as whether to spend money to make her happy (um, no), it's really a more complicated discussion about how to...